Im fed up now, need them to go back to school NOW!

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kids and dh are driving me mad! DH can never make a decision about where we go with the kids, doesnt even consider getting them dressed until i gte up and sort them out. Doesnt see the mess in the house, no one does but me :(
no one has even looked at the piles of clean washing that need to be put away.
I meant to use xmas to get dds room redecorated and nothing has been done apart from order new beds!
we have no money to do anything today and cant decide what to do, but know i need to get out the house!!!
ggrr roll on weds when we all go back to normal

Would finding some ducks to feed blow some cobwebs away?

Or a treasure hunt ( treasure means stick and funny shaped stones etc in this house!)?

I wanted to be all redecorated before Xmas hit and I was doing really well and then the flu hit.. So I'm finishing up this week.

Don't want ds to go back to school ( because that's where the hassel starts)... But I'm lucky as I get a break when the boys go to their dads for part of the holidays...
They are returning tonight so we have to quickly get back into routine before dreaded school on Wednesday!

I'm the same as Arsenic, i don't want the dd's to go back, the arguments with school to start and dd1 moaning that she has no friends.

We are trying to stay in today and do all the jobs that were ment to be done over x-mas (put shelves up, sort dd1's room out), we have taken down the x-mas decs so x-mas is well and trully over .

Dd2 has a hospital appointment tomorrow so i need to get school stuff ready for wed today.

Lisa, can you just ditch the kids on DH and take yourself out for a couple of hours? Ok, so the house will still be a state and they'll all be in their jammies, but you might be feeling better

I hate sending dd1 back always hard and her teacher is pregnant so loads of changes. Dd2 loves her special school but I don't want to send her to other preschool. I start Hanen course Thursday, have specialist salt going into normal school to advise them and then TAC which I'm dreading. Dh has taken girls out to farm so now resting on sofa, think he forget I have heart problems and get tired if I spend tine running around!

Glad your getting some sofa time :)

with regard to ds2 I really hate schools.. We have a couple of meetings coming up next week and I actually would just like ds to be okay and supported.. Instead of me going in and fighting the whole time)

ds1 and dd just go to school, do well, are social and the teachers just think they are fab! Which is great... But crap for ds2!

IME the education system has worked really well for both my NT dc's... It's been beyond awful for ds2..

( needs to stop moaning lol)