now what is amazing is that after his first tea/playdate three other kids said when can he come to my house, so he went to another girls house for tea i am soooo chuffed both mums said he was lovely, he had a girl for tea tonight we went to mcd's then nipped to shop for a few bits and he insisted on buying some flowers for his girlfriend, i can't believe this is happening he has just started year 4 in mainstream and he is more than just accepted