I am in a similar position, have just been refused a SA for dd and am about to appeal. I also have a meeting with ehad teacher tomorrow, and then with LEA bloke on Thurs.
The letter I got from LEA stated that they refused the SA as they felt that the school should be able to provide what DD needed without a statement.
I am going to ask:
For HT to clarify , and put in writing, EXACTLY what interventions DD has had so far (she has been on SA+ for 18 months)
What supprot EXACTLY she is now getting
Then I have a report from LSA that makes recomnedations for what DD needs, so I am going to go through that and ask them to clarify EXACTLY which recomendations they can meet, and which they cant.
I am also going to ask them to clarify there Special Needs budget, and how that is allocated.
I am going to ask why they did such a cr*p job of completing the form that LEA sent, and go through certain bits of that with them
Also I want to go through DD's previous cr*p IEPs and ask why they are so rubbish!
Also, why havent they yet referred dd to Ed Pysch, and make them do it.
additionally I am going to take notes and produce minutes of the meeting, copies of which will be sent to HT and LEA etc...
Good luck tomorrow - I hope it goes well for you.