its ds birthday next week, so we planned to go out saturaday with some of the family to celebrate, i even found a lovely cake he can eat. saturday morning i check his wee and its infected, so off i go and call out of hours care for antibiotics. decide we will still go as we havent been able to celebrate a birthday yet. and then he went and split his supra pubic tube. oh no, off to the hospital we go, and no birthdat party. they cut the end off and do a patch job, and i have to call the hospital for him to go on a list to have it refitted. the temp messures are not working and i have now resorted to strapping two nappys to him so he and the house arent covered in wee ( i hope this works as im out of ideas). ds is heart broken he keeps asking me if hes a baby and he thought he was a boy. it looks like we will be spending anouther birthday in surgery. thought i would post here as i no you understand and may have some wee catching ideas as opossed to my mother who said well thats normal for you, its your life now, why did you book anything