Ok ok the nerves are really kicking in now (ds starts ms school tomorrow)

[pucca]

God...I feel so helpless

I just really hope someone can break the communication barrier with him, as a year in pre-school he didn't talk or bond with ANY of the staff (just blanked them).

I went in earlier with a pack of nappies and wipes, and had to explain that ds will not alert them, nor will he anser if asked if he is dirty I just hope they check him as they have said they will do (feeling unsure after reading the thread concerning this).

I feel like I am throwing him in the lions den, and I can't even hold his hand.

He does have ESAP funding in place and a statement imminent.

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hey pucca, hope it goes well for ds

dd3s school are crap with most things but do manage to change her regularly and when needed so there is hope! Have they got a care plan for him to cover this kind of thing?

Thanks bc

I have no idea (I am crap aren't I?) I just went in earlier on and explained to them, I have also asked them to record down what bowel motions he has (For "poo" nurse) as I have to keep a diary, so will send in a little book, I will write in there to make sure.

good luck pucca ds

no, not at all! I didn't know until it appeared in dd3s statement, just her statement was written before she started school. Doesn't hurt to ask the school to do one though

Thanks roundthebend4

Bc...Yep you are right, will mention in morning. Thanks for the tip off

Good luck for both you and your DS for tomorrow :)

pucca how did it go>

Roundthebend4...Thanks for asking sorry for the delay, only just seen your post.

Well day 3 done today he 'seems' ok, just looks a bit dazed by it all, and today has been a pretty bad day for him by all accounts. He has been violent with a number of children...I guess this is where the fun starts! He also will not communicate with the teachers