Thanks Star, The appt is atually on 14th October, so still a little wait.
Because of the way he behaves etc I have had 2 visits from SS now - they are doing a risk assessment (and the next bit is what they told me and makes no sense to me iyswim)because of something that happened to him in 2005 - my cousins b'f touched him on one occassion and on the bak of that they need to do risk assessment - which i think it pathetic considering I have not seen cousin since may 2005.
That aside I have to say I cannot wait for him to go back to school tomorrow because I am worn out - and i feel awful saying that!