My dd is exhibiting a lot of the problems that I had as a child in terms of concentration, attention span etc etc. I really really struggled at school & didn’t come out with much. University was another pain (I don’t understand how I even got in) in the butt & I really don’t know why I bothered. Left my dissertation until the fortnight before & can honestly say I’ve never revised a day in my life. I just don’t get any kind of urgency for anything. Everything gets left until the last minute. I have never spoken to a doctor about this as another problem with ADHD is not asking for help. I keep getting in to trouble at work for this as I go off & do my own thing instead of asking for help…..
so when the school started to mention the rather farmiliar symptoms I decided I needed to get her the help she needed. Problem is I left the forms in the lounge for 3 months.
I’ve now got a new set & realy trying to fill them out. It mentions right to choose which I don’t real understand & when I look at ADHD uk it’s a bit confusing. 1 NHS trust states it only did 11 adult assessments last year (isle of wight for reference). & 15000 waiting 😩
Perhaps it’s my algorithm talking but social media is covered in this & it worries me not everyone is really legit. Or every women in her forties has it! 😁
So has anyone in Hampshire or Surrey (I don’t know if that matters?) had any luck & any recommendations for providers to use? Some state no wait list & some over 100 days so guessing there is a huge difference in their patient wellness scores. My dd is the priority here as she has 3.5 years left at primary school & they have said will treat her with an ADHD lens, but once at secondary this will not happen.
Help please!