DD10 is autistic, highly academic and is well supported in her small primary school. She has a good group of friends, love school and learning. She's curious and hilarious and amazing.
She struggles a lot with sensory processing e.g. uses a chewy and wobble cushion for input in class, spins around constantly and stims flapping her hands in quite an overtly autistic way. She isn't able to speak to anyone she doesn't know, doesn't make new friends or talk to people to get her needs met. She is extremely sensitive to smells and noise. She needs a lot of explicit teaching to learn new skills and social expectations. She has had ELSA and Social Skills groups at school but hates the latter due to feeling it just teaches her to mask.. (fair enough imho!). She needs a lot of information about transitions, she has a carefully managed transition each year with photographs and extra visits to the new class and teacher etc.
She struggles with emotional regulation and gets easily overwhelmed. She has a lot of rigid routines she follows regardless of context.. she's not always aware of personal safety and would not ask for help if she was in trouble.
She has an IEP but she isn't having any real intervention currently outside of ordinary provision. We had a needs assessment done a few years ago with recommendations and her autism report but both are 3+ years old.
I don't know if it's relevant to education but I put down everything we do to care for her and she was awarded middle rate DLA and low rate mobility.
Her Y6 teacher and the 6-7 Senco at the secondary she will most likely attend have both recommended she gets an EHCP for the transition to secondary.. but am I missing something.. or is it pretty much impossible on the evidence we have?! Everyone seems to get turned down and she's doing great at school so why would they consider it?