Autistic DS started secondary school this week. Unfortunately his EHCP came through in July so not enough time to sort his school place before the new year.
We have requested a place in an RP for him but he has had to start the year in mainstream.
Day 1 went ok but he went to meet DD to get the bus home, and the gate was locked unexpectedly so he panicked and had a meltdown - this mostly involves trying to find a space to be alone, but obviously the teachers had to follow him to make sure he is safe. I was called and had to go collect him.
Day 2 I got a call at lunchtime. He is dysregulated and trying to find a space to be alone but again teachers are following him. During this dyregulation he has kicked and thrown things at the teacher who was there as he wanted to be left. I had to calm him down.
I spoke to the SENCo who suggested he spend some time in their Hive classroom next week (he was originally denied access to this as it is for lower ability children and he is very bright).
After school yesterday I had a call to say school cannot meet his needs due to safety issues and so he is not to attend. Is this legal? They were quoting section 19 at me but I'm not sure what that is.
They have emailed the LA to request more specialised support for him and we should find out from the RP this week whether they will accept him. Do we just wait it out? I'm absolutely gutted for him that they have given up on him so quickly 😢
I spent all last night crying and again this morning. He is a clever boy who could do well with the right support but I don't know what we can do!
Any help or advice is really appreciated. Thanks for reading.