Dc4 is 3.5yrs and I need to apply for her reception place before Mid January. She is non verbal, doesn't use pecs or signing currently and although not she hasn't officially been diagnosed as having an asd she has lots of traits. She's under salt, portage and paediatrician and is being referred for OT too.
Although the ehcp process has begun we know it can take up to 6m to be completed by which time the deadline for applying for her reception place would have passed. We're unsure whether to apply for a mainstream school or the nearest special school at this stage.
There are 3 primary schools in our catchment area, one of them my older 2 dc attend at the but it is large - 3 class per year, which we dont feel is suitable for dd. The other 2 are one form entry per year which we'd prefer if we choose mainstream school however, as she would have no siblings at either of those schools she'd be 5th/6th on the admission criteria so without the ehcp in place she might not get a place at either of these schools.
Do we just apply so she has a place somewhere even though this might change after the ehcp is in place or do we apply as a late application after the ehcp is complete?
Does anyone have experience of a non-verbal child/autism in a mainstream school or have you chosen a special school for your child? It's so hard to know what to do for the best 
Thanks x