My older sister is mean to my SIL and niece.
I have a good relationship with old sister. But, over the last year or two I've noticed she's a bit unhinged with my SIL.
I visit the family one a month and everytime she turns up at my parents house and starts making negative comments about SIL. I am not a conforntational person my fix to this is trying to change the topic or leave room.
My SIL is loving and kind. She moved from the motherland when she married my brother. She's quiet and reserved but, also when we are alone she's talkative and funny. She's a really good person who's married into a my sh*tty crazy family.
To make matters worse I've noticed my older sister isn't warm towards my neice either. Yesterday my neice fell real hard and startrd doing that can't breath sort of crying kids do. The horrible one? My older sister starts laughing at her. I ran and picked her up and tried to soothe her and you know what she says "leave her she's pretending".
Like what the f*uck am I deaing with here. I'm so angry.