ds1 and ds2 share a room.ds1 has always been fairly bad sleeper and also needs lamp or door open-hes very hard to get into bed.hes almost 7 btw.its only the going to bed that hes not good at.
ds2 is 2 and goes to bed well providing its dark so no light and door needs to be shut..
we were doing it that ds2 goes to bed at his bedtime 6.30 with lights off then when ds1 went to bed at 7.30 i put his lamp on but this was disturbing ds2!(i switched it off after ds1 was asleep)then if(or when i should say!)ds2 woke in the night hed disturb ds1!
so ds1 has been sleeping with dd whos nearly 8.she doesnt mind but i really need to sort it before she does start minding plus it seems silly he has a bed in his room but is sharing a bed with dd(who also would prefer the light off but has it on for ds1)
ds1 is very hard work day and night but i hope by sorting out the bedtime itll get easier with the rest of the day!