Right - dd3 is still in with us and will be for some time as we need to move to before we have a room to put her in. Up to about 14 weeks she slept like a log 8-5am sometimes later, then it allw went to pot and she started waking earlier -1am/2am - feeding and going back to sleep till 5 then feeding again. Now at 9 months plus she goes down fine (good), mostly sleeps till after 12 and if she does stir I leave her to settle herself which 9 out of 10 times she can do (good) but then somewhere between 12 and 1am usually - she wakes - 20 minutes after we have gone to bed and just as dh and I are drifting into sleep. This is not good. It is increasingly hard to settle her then back in her own cot - the only way to do it is to feed her back to sleep - if I put her down awake she kicks off. And then - this is the really rubbish bit - she wakes again at 3am or later. Even if I take her in bed with me she still wakes again. I am reluctant to go cold turkey with the night feeds as she still seems to enjoy them (huh!) and takes in a lot but I would love a straight 6 hours! What do you all think - are we doomed till we get her a room of her own?