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Why is my toddler suddenly waking at 4am!!

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SameToo · 12/02/2021 04:15

It’s been consistent over the past 4 days waking at 4 crying and shouting for us. Previously she slept through the night. She’s 18months, I stopped breastfeeding to sleep 2 weeks ago because of a bad illness and DH took over putting her to bed. All was well until this Monday when she started waking. If I go in she gets frustrated I can’t feed her. DH has been going in and lying on the floor holding her hand but she doesn’t seem to go fully back to sleep and ends up getting up at 5ish.
She naps about an hour a day and goes to bed around 6.30. It was normally 6 but we’ve moved it back to between 6.30-7 to see if this helps.

Any advice please?

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swaziscot · 12/02/2021 04:24

Getting up early is sometimes a sign they’re getting too much sleep during the day - I’d definitely move her to a 7pm bed time as you’ve sort of started doing. Is her nap an afternoon one? If it’s morning I’d try to keep her awake until early afternoon so she’s not using a morning nap to top up her night time sleep.

SameToo · 12/02/2021 08:14

Her nap is usually from about 12 and can be an hour to an hour and a half. I’ve asked the nursery to wake her after and hour today as the naps have definitely gotten longer this week.

I managed to get her back to sleep but she woke after about 45mins. DH then went in again and tried. Slept a little but then got up.

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Seriously79 · 12/02/2021 08:26

18 month sleep regression- it's hell! Good luck x

SameToo · 12/02/2021 12:52

Is that likely what it is? Thank you, I need it Grin

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Snowymcsnowsony · 12/02/2021 12:55

Could she simply be waking up because she is cold?

SameToo · 12/02/2021 16:20

We turned the radiator up in her room because we thought it might be this. Might turn it up a bit more.

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Sandrine1982 · 13/02/2021 21:55

Following!!! Our DD is 17.5 months old and in the last 2-3 weeks she's been getting up at 5:45 on the dot which is a killer! I dont like it !!!! Previously it wasnt that different ..but I'd take anything closer to 6:30 please.

SameToo · 17/02/2021 06:37

She’s improved again. Wakes at 6 or after now but she did wake 3 times before 12am last night. I just go to bed at 9 every night now just in case Confused

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