ive had probs sleeping for a long time (as you may have noticed ) but dd was always very good. however im now surviving on about an hour every morning. she used to sleep from about ten until 9, have a bottle and sleep again until dinnertime. now she will go to bed about 10pm and at 4am ish she starts grumbling...not crying but grumbling. i listen for a while and when i establish she isnt going to stop i pick her up and settle her..she doesnt fall asleep in my arms but she settles and i put her back down. on and off the grumbling continues until 7ish when i decide to give her a bottle. then she grumbles again so i put her in my bed about 9am as its the only way to get her calm...i know im probably making a rod for my own back doing this but im fresh out of ideas...my son was such a good sleeper..ive never had this before. she will sleep in my bed until about 11 which is great for her but i lie there half awake scared i will roll on her. shes nearly 9 months old now...a reasonable eater and going up the chart on a low but steady line..shes always been small. she wont eat a solid for breakfast at all and still has four bottles a day, 7 ounces. what am i doing wrong! i may have posted on her eating habits before (my memory fails me) but the sleep thing has just been going on a few weeks now getting worse every night it seems. could it be teething, feeding or what...? sorry for wittering on...not thinking straight.