I read babies shouldn’t sleep on soft places like pillows and duvets. Sometimes after I feed my NB I put her on a pillow or soft blanket in my lap to get myself sorted and admire her gorgeous self- is this okay or am I putting her at risk of sids? She is never alone on the pillow and never there for ore than 15 min or so and I also don’t use too soft of a pillow. Don’t want to take any chances pf course so will stand up straight away or put her on a harder surface if that’s safer for her. Xx