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My baby is sleeping better than me!

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Blueeyes91 · 27/11/2018 08:14

I need help. I've not slept more than a couple of hours a night for the past week or so. I'm now so tired I've bags under my eyes, I'm weepy and my eyes sting.

This started when my boss turned down my flexible working request for my return to work from maternity leave. I wanted to work from home an extra day a week and it was turned down. So as of January I go back to working 1.30 to 9.30pm. And will get to see my daughter in the morning when I wake her and take her to nursery. Then I'll see her at weekends... you can see why sleep is evading me?

My work has then sent me a new contract to sign where they've cut my holiday allowance and have a new clause that basically says they can have me doing overtime and I can't say no or get paid for it.

So yeah. I'm pretty sure work are the cause of my lack of sleep. I've tried mindfulness techniques and things like warm milk before bed and a nice warm bath. But nothing works. As soon as my head hits the pillow I'm wired.

I'm breastfeeding so obviously I need tips that won't mess with that. I don't want to go to the doctors and waist their time when it is just stess.

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FTMF30 · 28/11/2018 06:53

You're probably right about your work being the source of your lack of sleep.
What you say they're doing sounds illegal. How long will you have been off for maternity leave? If it's just the 9 months or less, they have no right to change your contract. Secondly, if they make you work overtime, they HAVE TO pay you or give you time off in lieu. This is assuming you're in the UK?

Bluerussian · 28/11/2018 07:38

Oh bless you, poor thing. I'm not surprised you are so stressed. I have no advice, sorry, but am sure others will know more about it. FRMF30, above, does. I really hope you get something sorted out soon.
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