Ok, so hands up this is my third baby, but i really can't recall specifics. DC3 is four days old, just back from hospital. He will barely go down to sleep in cot or Moses basket, will sleep in arms. Lots of cluster feeding especially through night. Either DH or I have been up through the night (I am BFing). I can remember cluster feeding and that DC1 definitely didn't sleep first few nights. But everything else is a blur.... this does get better right !!! He's keen on sucking anything so was thinking of possibly a dummy (recall that worked for DC2) and has a tongue tie which we can't get cut until next week so my nipples probably won't cope with all his gnawing...