Struggling to find a bedtime routine that works for us. I have a three year old and a four month old. 3yo routine has always been tea about 5 (she takes ages eating), bath just gone 6, 2 stories and bed for 7. The 4mo gets super grumpy by bedtime. Ideally I think he may need his bedtime to be 6ish but I'm having trouble coordinating everything. At the moment he is a right grump while we're eating tea, we will all have a bath together (where he is super happy) then he is too tired I think to be left on his own(he'll scream) while I get the big one ready for bed. Tried feeding while reading stories but he'll stop and listen and then be grumpy again. Feel like neither are getting a nice calm bedtime routine at the moment. Would love to hear some ideas/ examples of bedtime routines that work.