Any advice would be really appreciated: My DD has been napping fairly well in the day (3/4 x; almost textbook times) and bath/bedtime around 7pm (which fits well with DS aged 3) until this last week, when she has started catnapping in the day (up to 45mins 2/3 times a day) and then going down for a 3.5 hour nap around 5pm, waking to be fed at 9pm. She then needs feeding around 1am and 5am - previously she was feeding at around midnight and 6am which suited us all much better.
Do you think she is trying to drop a nap? Or should we be trying to keep her up a bit longer and bath her at say 5.30pm (not very practical with demanding toddler)? Or ...?