I'm using these abbreviations as if I know them well, but I don't.
Have scanned the message boards for similar relevant story but can't see one.
We need to get increasingly disrupted nights in order
6 month old needs dummy to go off to sleep, usually wakes at least once before we go to bed but can be settled,
then wakes at 1.30 and won't go to sleep until 4.30 (unless we give him the breast)...so we alternate between listening to his cries, pat and shushing, holding and stroking his hands, put the dummy in (which he then spits out)
he was sleeping through the night - we made the mistake of giving him the breast a couple of weeks ago when he woke up and wouldn't go back to sleep and now he's demanding it regularly during the night
what can we do? and how do we do it?
feel free to direct me to existing threads.
I'm so tired I feel awful