I know it's my falut but it needs to stop! He just won't stay in his cot, I put him to sleep at 7pm with his last bottle and usually by the time he has finished it he is asleep or dropping, so I put him in his cot, before he would fall asleep now he gets up and starts crying, then I cuddle him to sleep. Then about midnight he will wake up (sometimes) I will then pat his bum to sleep. Then usually between 4am and 5pm he will wake and i will just put him in my bed till I then get up to get my 8,9 and 10 year old up for school. My 10 month old isn't in his own room I don't want to put him in yet because of this reason, alot of people say leave him to cry, i tried that last night but it broke my heart and I felt bad on my other sons. I don't know what to do :(