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Why was the thread about the violence at the Reform conference deleted?

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TemperanceWest · 05/09/2026 20:19

Please could you explain. Thank you.

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YourWatermelonship · 06/09/2026 06:15

Thank you. I was wondering this too

TemperanceWest · 06/09/2026 11:27

Any chance of a response please mnhq? I was thinking of starting a thread on the violence, but pointless if it will be deleted.

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MyThreeWords · 06/09/2026 11:43

Obviously it was deleted because someone reported the ageist abuse. Start one without that, and you will be fine. The event has already been discussed on other threads anyway, though. Is there much more to say? It happened it was bad and presumably the police are investigating.

Efacsen · 06/09/2026 11:56

Someone has started a new thread about it in AIBU just a few minutes ago @TemperanceWest

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TemperanceWest · 06/09/2026 12:02

Efacsen · 06/09/2026 11:56

Someone has started a new thread about it in AIBU just a few minutes ago @TemperanceWest

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Thanks!

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TemperanceWest · 06/09/2026 12:02

MyThreeWords · 06/09/2026 11:43

Obviously it was deleted because someone reported the ageist abuse. Start one without that, and you will be fine. The event has already been discussed on other threads anyway, though. Is there much more to say? It happened it was bad and presumably the police are investigating.

There was some ageism which could have been deleted rather than the whole thread pulled.

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summater · 06/09/2026 12:05

The ageism couldn't really be deleted as it was in the OP, then all the way through. The thread lost all sense because of the blatant ageism

YourWatermelonship · 06/09/2026 12:15

TemperanceWest · 06/09/2026 12:02

There was some ageism which could have been deleted rather than the whole thread pulled.

The thread was definitely derailed by accusations of ageism.

KellyMumsnet · 06/09/2026 20:36

Hi @TemperanceWest. Could you give us a link to the title of the delete thread or tell us what it was called? We'll happily take a look and tell you what we can but we just want to be sure we're looking at the right thread.

TemperanceWest · 06/09/2026 20:40

KellyMumsnet · 06/09/2026 20:36

Hi @TemperanceWest. Could you give us a link to the title of the delete thread or tell us what it was called? We'll happily take a look and tell you what we can but we just want to be sure we're looking at the right thread.

Hi Kelly, thanks for getting back to me. It was this one:

Why was the thread about the violence at the Reform conference deleted?
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TemperanceWest · 07/09/2026 09:24

Are you able to share the reason for the deletion please @KellyMumsnet ?

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BeckyAMumsnet · 07/09/2026 18:06

Hi all. Thanks for giving us the chance to look again at the moderation here. First off, our generic deletion message wasn’t good enough. We should have explained the decision properly at the time, and we’re sorry we didn’t.

For the avoidance of doubt, the thread wasn’t deleted because it criticised Reform. There’s no shortage of criticism of Reform - or any political party - on Mumsnet, as a quick look at Active will confirm, and there’s no rule against it.

The thread began with a sweeping, ageist insult and quickly became dominated by personal attacks. Opening posts set the terms of a conversation and, while they certainly don’t need to be neutral, they do need to leave some room for disagreement without those who take a different view immediately being attacked or cast as defenders of violence. This one left very little prospect of a worthwhile discussion.

By the time we reviewed it, there wasn’t a viable thread left to preserve by removing one or two posts, so we took it down.

Yewlez · 07/09/2026 18:12

I was one of the people who reported a reply on it, and I was disappointed to see it deleted but I understand it might but have been possible to preserve it by the time it was looked at. It was ok when I sent the report but I imagine it moved fast.

Blimms · 07/09/2026 18:12

The attitude of the OP and others on that thread were awful. As bad as Reform tbh.

TemperanceWest · 07/09/2026 18:44

Thanks for explaining @BeckyAMumsnet

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comeoncolleen · 07/09/2026 18:49

summater · 06/09/2026 12:05

The ageism couldn't really be deleted as it was in the OP, then all the way through. The thread lost all sense because of the blatant ageism

That was my impression, I was quite taken aback.

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