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The returning M&S/why didn't I get the job/Aidan isn't any better than me ...

58 replies

BIWI · 30/06/2022 15:20

Why can they keep coming back? Lord knows how many threads they've started now - which seem to run for ages as well, before being deleted.

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JaneJeffer · 30/06/2022 21:07

They know exactly what they're doing. Been here forever. I don't know what they get out of it. There's nowt as queer as folk.

ElizaJones · 30/06/2022 22:25

I have been here forever too, since the beginning really. I have seen many, many trolls but this person is different.

JaneJeffer · 30/06/2022 22:28

I meant they have been here for a long time but they have escalated since the update.

A580Hojas · 30/06/2022 22:34

This has all gone whoosh over my head. Has it been around a long time?

ShirleyPhallus · 30/06/2022 22:37

How can anyone tell given the deletion messages still don’t show up on TIO?!

minou123 · 30/06/2022 23:31

www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4580512-hello-everyone-please-use-this-thread-for-ms-tips

And the same thread posted again.
But I made the list of the Ops "banned" posters. So that's an achievement tonight.

BIWI · 01/07/2022 10:46

How is it possible that you can't properly ban this poster @MichaelMumsnet?

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GirlDownUnder22 · 01/07/2022 10:51

BIWI · 01/07/2022 10:46

How is it possible that you can't properly ban this poster @MichaelMumsnet?

They can only ban an IP address. If the person is using a proxy server they get a new IP address every time. It's literally a game of whack-a-troll.

BIWI · 01/07/2022 11:06

Ah. OK. Just have to hope that they get bored soon then!

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minou123 · 01/07/2022 11:29

It got worse last night @BIWI

They hijacked a legitimate thread. A poor poster started a thread about her DH and the troll posted that the thread is now about m&s, aiden blah blah blah.
Anyone who tried to answer the original op, the troll posted numerous posts saying they were now on a "banned" list.
The original op had no idea what was going on and unfortunately the entire thread was removed.

BIWI · 01/07/2022 11:37

Glad I was out then!

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YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet · 01/07/2022 11:37

Hi @BIWI obviously, TSSDNCOP - we're unable to stop such invested trolls rejoining the site but we are continuing to work on ways to deter them and improve our methods in spotting them before they take root. We also know that we're very lucky that MNers report things to us (and that so many of you have an astonishing ability to sniff them out in the first place).

BIWI · 01/07/2022 11:39

What you really mean @YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet is that some of us are just saddoes, here too often and with too much time on our hands Wink Grin

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Kanaloa · 01/07/2022 11:40

Would it be better to maybe ignore the threads when they come up? Grey rock it maybe. I find that works when my kids get on a repeated thread of nonsense. Maybe if there were no replies they’d just stop.

BIWI · 01/07/2022 11:51

I agree @Kanaloa - but unfortunately many posters don't recognise the (returning) troll, and take the OP seriously. And this is conflated by those who never bother to read the rest of the thread but just jump on with their own 'words of wisdom'!

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iklboo · 01/07/2022 11:52

@YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet - I think you're just Aidan & abetting them.

YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet · 01/07/2022 11:53

@BIWI nooooo we'd be lost without you!

@Kanaloa that would be ideal as trolls just want attention. This might happen with an obvious troll but some are harder to spot than others.

BIWI · 01/07/2022 11:55

iklboo · 01/07/2022 11:52

@YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet - I think you're just Aidan & abetting them.

I'll get your coat ...

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GirlDownUnder22 · 01/07/2022 11:55

iklboo · 01/07/2022 11:52

@YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet - I think you're just Aidan & abetting them.

Hahaha very good

The returning M&S/why didn't I get the job/Aidan isn't any better than me ...
Kanaloa · 01/07/2022 12:00

BIWI · 01/07/2022 11:51

I agree @Kanaloa - but unfortunately many posters don't recognise the (returning) troll, and take the OP seriously. And this is conflated by those who never bother to read the rest of the thread but just jump on with their own 'words of wisdom'!

Yes I’ve stupidly just realised that of course everyone won’t know it’s a troll immediately. They do tend to start with a relatively normal ish first post. The first time I commented on one it seemed normal and genuine until suddenly all the sucky sucky Mr 4pm stuff started.

Hadjab · 01/07/2022 12:00

Why do I always miss the good stuff?

YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet · 01/07/2022 12:04

iklboo · 01/07/2022 11:52

@YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet - I think you're just Aidan & abetting them.

😆

Hellodarknessmyoldpal · 01/07/2022 12:14

I agree with @ElizaJones i thought the poster last night that took over someone's thread and banned other posters seemed a bit more MH issue than on the wynd up. I didn't get the whole Aiden thing though?! How do people know it's them as i assume they are using different usernames?

Kanaloa · 01/07/2022 12:15

They say literally the same thing every time, and it always comes back to a young Harry Styles lookalike called Aiden who got the job because the manager (who leaves at 4pm) wants to groom him, utterly disregarding op’s knowledge of perfect pairings and her ‘take a basket’ loss prevention scheme.

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