Am I being unreasonable . My partner and I have been seeing each other for two years now . But he still hasn't divorced his wife. They have been separated and living apart for 8 years now . He says he loves me and wants to live with me but I don't feel comfortable living with someone else's husband. He's been saying for two years he will do it but never does. They have no children to think about as he is grown up. They have no financial issues either. So I don't understand why they still want to remain married . Please anybody else been though similar thing or could shed some light on the matter .