Could we get someone like Margot Sutherland or Dan Hughes in for a web chat please? Maybe having specialists in child development and trauma impact on the brain would help some posters accept that some antisocial behaviours aren't just "bratty" behaviours but directly caused by the childs experiences and typical punishments such as exclusions won't help. And that trauma is a real thing, not something that needs to go in inverted commas as if it's being wheeled out as an excuse.
Plus these would be fab guests for the adoptive parents to chat to here regardless.