First of all, I know this is a taat but I really want to ask the question.
The deletion message below suggests you'll be coming back to it at some point one way or the other. But it's all gone quiet for days on end. If I was the OP I might be a bit put out (she's obviously not or she'd have been back and stood up for herself so it's probably all bollocks anyway) BUT my point remains, I think a more decisive message should have been put up. Many people spend too much time reading and replying to these threads and I just don't think it's cricket.