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Daisy and the text from the OW thread.

74 replies

TheCunkOfPhilomena · 19/10/2014 21:29

Re the thread on the relationships board that turned out to be a massive reversal.

MNHQ have stated that this is a long time poster, I hope this doesn't mean she/ he is given any special dispensation. That was one hell of a trolly thread.

I know that TSSDNCOP and all that but I bloody hope the poster won't be back.

OP posts:
TheCunkOfPhilomena · 19/10/2014 21:49

Who knows if she is really the other woman (that's what she told MNHQ), she could've made the whole thing up just out of being a troll. Bloody hope he/ she doesn't come back MNHQ

OP posts:
Littlefish · 19/10/2014 21:49

LEM

The Secret Service Does Not Comment On Policy.

LEMmingaround · 19/10/2014 21:50

Do reverse aibu break talk guidelines? Or only under certain circumstances? Some people doa reverse when they want confirmation they aren't bu. Annoying but they generally come clean a few pages in.

AlpacaYourThings · 19/10/2014 21:51

No tether no texts were sent she made it all up. She just happens to be the OW who as been shagging a married an for 3 years and wanted to know what the reaction would be...

If you believe that version of events

LEMmingaround · 19/10/2014 21:51

Oh.thanls little fish. That cleared that up then HmmGrin

AlpacaYourThings · 19/10/2014 21:52

has man

CarmelasFridge · 19/10/2014 21:52

Ooh. Thanks for link. What kind of mess would you be in to post something like that? Crikey.

PatriciaHolm · 19/10/2014 21:56

There is a poster who fairly regularly comes on and wails about being the OW, about how terrible and hard it is for her, with a spectacular lack of self awareness. I wouldn't be surprised if it were her. It's very much her M.O - a thread about HER as if she's the only one in the relationship that matters.

ScarlettlovesRhett · 19/10/2014 21:57

I hope she's been banned. Horrible woman.

Camolips · 19/10/2014 21:57

It's not a 'reverse' at all, it's just a made-up fantasy where the op/ow was imagining what would go on in the mm's household if the op instigated the 'text'. As such, a troll, pretending to be someone she doesn't know and sucking people in with her 'story'. Ban!

SanityClause · 19/10/2014 21:58

It did start to feel trolly. You know, when, as you're reading, it's like instalments of a soap opera?

When it's a real support thread, there's always interaction with the posters, rather than a tale unfolding. There was no emotion, here, just the story.

If you're reading this, Daisy, what are you really hoping to achieve by telling his wife? That she'll throw him out, and he'll be all yours? Because its not likely to happen.

WorraLiberty · 19/10/2014 21:58

Thanks for the link AlpacaYourThings, it makes a bit more sense now.

However, I don't believe she was just using the thread as a sounding board.

She got far too into it, with her little details etc.

AlpacaYourThings · 19/10/2014 22:01

You're welcome Worra

I don't believe for a minute that it was a reverse. I think the OP made up the story and when called on it came up with this lie.

IamtheZombie · 19/10/2014 22:12

Fantasy, reverse, whatever. It doesn't really matter. What matters is that it was despicable and the poster should be banned.

PrettyPictures92 · 19/10/2014 22:13

I think she's been banned, if you search Daisy200 it comes up "no search results" instead of previous posting history. Even if she's name changed her history under Daisy200 would still be there no?

wooooosualsuspect · 19/10/2014 22:16

Your posts don't get deleted if you are banned.

I expect she only posted on the deleted thread under Daisy and that's why none of her posts are coming up on AS.

wantacatplease · 19/10/2014 22:20

Feels strange to have MNHQ say "she's awfully sorry." I wish they would clarify their stance on it.

wantacatplease · 19/10/2014 22:22

There's another thread currently that is very much unfolding like a soap opera...I was giving it the benefit of the doubt because the poster has some history, but I've reported now...because apparently that doesn't mean anything anymore. Confused

wantacatplease · 19/10/2014 22:30

The Threads Went Poof! thread is being deleted as a TAAT now. Confused

Only since the Daisy thread, though, have they cared to pull it. Curiouser and curiouser.

ArsenicChaseScream · 19/10/2014 22:32

She is actually the OW herself and wanted a bit of a sounding board
to see what the fallout might be if she let the wife of the man she is
seeing know what is going on and whether it was the best thing to
do. Essentially it was a bit of an over-zealous reverse AIBU.

So she was telling us how things unfolded in the MM's house (rather flatfly in fact)??. Nope. Makes no sense.

Seven varieties of BS.

Camolips · 19/10/2014 22:45

Yes, why has the poof thread gone now all of a sudden? It's been around all week.

AlpacaYourThings · 19/10/2014 22:48

Apparently it turned into a TAAT.

ArsenicChaseScream · 19/10/2014 22:50

It was a TAAT from the start.

wantacatplease · 19/10/2014 22:53

In the OP it said it was a TAAT. It's only been pulled since we started talking about the Daisy thread.

LineRunner · 19/10/2014 22:53

Agree with the bullshit assessment.

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