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Spoofs, Jokes and Trolls

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Hullygully · 27/03/2013 16:47

Right.

I want a serious debate about this.

I started a joke thread, in my own name as usual, about a neighbour stealing a spoon.

It was questioned as "trolling" and I got told off by Rebecca at MNHQ.

Are spoofs and/or jokes no longer allowed?

Since when?

And why?

What do people think about spoofs, jokes and trolls and the difference theereof?

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Freddiemisagreatshag · 28/03/2013 12:41

You cannot go around on an open forum alleging criminal incompetence. If I offended anyone by saying that then I'm sorry. But it's a fact. You can't. Well you can. If you like. But mnhq is legally liable for what you post. And at the end of the day all I did was report. He didn't have to delete anything if they didn't want to.

And again if anyone thought I was sanctimonious or being nasty I apologise. I work in this area and I am well aware of how careful mnhq have to be and I was really really just trying to do the right thing.

I won't make that mistake again.

Tee2072 · 28/03/2013 12:41

I cannot have my 74 year old mother cleaning my house. She will do a lot of cooking however! And, more importantly, Small Boy wrangling.

Won't someone think of the POs? (It had to be said.)

Chubfuddler · 28/03/2013 12:42

Oh thread has gone serious.

Chubfuddler · 28/03/2013 12:43

My 67 year old mother is my cleaner.

Trills · 28/03/2013 12:44

The Post Offices? Yes, I hear lots of rural ones are being shut down.

MadameDefarge · 28/03/2013 12:45

chub... it won't last for long! that's the essence of a great thread though, for me, its like a proper conversation...lots of different tones and thoughts and moving on. not sitting at the table banging your glass every five minutes to repeat your rather dull but arsey opinion. or is that being too sooky?

FunnysInLaJardin · 28/03/2013 12:45

oh don't be cross Madame. Tis the second of such slaps for me. The first time it was grossly unfair and I got an apology, but this time tbh I read it as a 'please stop playing about as the po are inundating us with emails, sob'.

We only got targetted by the reporters as we stick our heads above the parapet

Tee2072 · 28/03/2013 12:47

Freddie I agree with you. People do seem to forget, a lot, that MN is completely searchable by Google, except for OTBT. And they forget that OTBT isn't hidden, just not indexed on Google.

And once it's on the 'net, it's never really deleted.

Maryz · 28/03/2013 12:50

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Tee2072 · 28/03/2013 12:51

Well, the schools are going on holiday. We've been off all week. Things always go nuts during school breaks.

So that ties in with your theory, Maryz.

Or it could be a demon, a dancing demon, no something isn't right there...

LaQueen · 28/03/2013 12:52

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MadameDefarge · 28/03/2013 12:54

But if they the reporters really thought we were trolls why not search on nickname for posting history? five blinking years here? or maybe all my posts are troll like? Lazy self-righteous loons.

GetOeuf · 28/03/2013 12:54

Never saw that thread though freddie.

Anyway I am sorry you're feeling beleaguered - I wasn't aiming my snippiness re mintyy's thread at you rather than a load of people and the general tone of the thing (and the fact that MNHQ could have just changed the title and the bloody thread could have stayed anyway but they didn't)

BOEUF · 28/03/2013 12:55

There is an extended orgy going on at the moment, I totally agree. All still up. A risible one active just now.

Maryz · 28/03/2013 12:55

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MadameDefarge · 28/03/2013 12:56

As long as MNHQ don't take the lead in the MN beige tabards and toning easislacks Thats fine. Its when I see a quote for bulk tabards on their desk I get worried.

FunnysInLaJardin · 28/03/2013 12:56

no one thought we were trolls they just didn't like us having a laugh, because they is well jel innit

GetOeuf · 28/03/2013 12:57

Sorry x posts with your last one freddie - last post went into the ether.

MadameDefarge · 28/03/2013 12:57

But I haven't been a regular for about two years they don't even know me!

GetOeuf · 28/03/2013 12:58

Agree bof some daft invented nonsense on here at the moment. Avoiding. Just talking about cake punching at the moment.

AMAZED that the 'i want to kill my pets' one didn't get invaded by the mad and animal obsessed. The last one where some people slagged off their pets lovingly caused a flurry of Sad and someone flounced because if the heartless pet owners.

MadameDefarge · 28/03/2013 12:58

I know, I know, it isn't all about me.

Freddiemisagreatshag · 28/03/2013 12:59

Why didn't HQ just change the title then? Why did they delete?

What everyone on here has to remember is that despite what we all think with anonymous user names you are never really truly anonymous on the internet.

And yes, OK, criminal incompetence re estate agents photos doesn't seem like a big deal. But it can't be one rule for you and another rule for something else.

It's OK to say on here "There's this bloke going out with my sister he gives me the creeps"

What you can't say is "There's this man called John Smith and he raped Anne Jones"

And that's the point I was trying to (cackhandedly) make WRT the estate agent thread. It's exactly the same premise and principle. It's an allegation of criminal wrong doing vs a personal opinion.

If you start saying well it's ok for estate agent photos then where does it end?

Tee2072 · 28/03/2013 12:59

Too bad all they have to do is join in with the laugh.

And I don't get the search previous posting thing, since name changing is allowed and takes 5 seconds. So I could come back as TheMostAwesomeNameEver and post something and it would look like my first post.

I've said it before, I'll say it again, they should restrict name changes. I don't know any other site that allows it the way they do here and it leads to trolls and accusations of trolls.

LaQueen · 28/03/2013 12:59

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Maryz · 28/03/2013 13:01

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