In short, the Bounty thread was reported to us as bringing personal, individual dirty linen over from another site -which is not really what we're about.
The Netmums one, while not particularly helpful is more general.
Please note that this is not a competitive forum thing.
Really this is a thread about a thread and on that grounds ought to be deleted too.But we will leave for now though it's not really AIBU so we'll move to site stuff.
Hope this clears this up.
Thanks again
MNHQ