Please read below. Any opinion is appreciated.

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I’m sorry for the really long story here, but basically, I met a guy we met for fling - all consensual.

What I didn’t realise is he had recorded a video of me. I knew he took his phone out and as soon as I saw it, I swatted it away. That’s what I definitely remember. He then put the phone to the side.

A day or two after, I asked him to send me whatever was on his phone and he did. Very clear that it was me in the video.

Just wondering, is there anything illegal or wrong about this or am I reading too much into it?
I have asked him to delete it.

That is illegal for sure - I would call the police and report it!

Not sure about the legality tbh, but if you didn't want him to do it it is absolutely wrong. I would talk it over with the police anyway, just to see of it is illegal. They could then force him to delete it and hopefully stop him doing it to anyone else.

It does seem to be illegal:

Filming partner without their consent during sex ruled a criminal offence | Court of appeal | The Guardian https://share.google/alA6fcjZsg5kEHQtB

This is against the law . If you are certain he's deleted it and you trust him then that should be the end of it. If he quibbles then call the police.

She can't be certain he deleted it though. He has had it a few days, he could have sent it to friends via a WhatsApp group etc. He could also have it not physically on his phone, but uploaded to cloud based storage. That's why I would go to the police, they can interrogate his phone which can basically electronically analyse all keystrokes.

If it's not illegal then it's certainly immoral. I'd make sure he deleted it, maybe for his own viewing but it could easily be shared. I'd consider reporting him if he doesn't do as you ask

It is illegal in the uk, I checked. Breaches the voyeurism law.