Would you laugh at this?

[RoseWineLover]

I'm just going to cut straight to the chase. After great sex with my DP of 8 months ,we were chatting about another thread and sexual tension on a first date.
He jokingly said he 'wished I'd had more sexual tension..... in my f*y'
I laughed! Was this something to laugh about??

Depends what a f*y is.

Is he saying he wishes you were tighter??

Yes that's exactly what he's saying.

If he said it jokingly, and you found it funny then thats all that matters.

If you made a joke about him being small, and he found it funny, then thats fair enough. If he got shitty about it, that would be an issue.

If it's still bothering you enough to start a thread on MN, then ask him what he meant by it.

Hopefully just a typical insensitive man comment not thinking about how much it would affect you. Imagine you said wish you had more stiffness in your willy

So he’s made you feel insecure.

I’m the kind of person who’d have said straight back, “well that’s two of us who’ve been left disappointed then. Haha.”

It’s all jokes and lolz when it’s aimed at a woman’s expense and we’re expected to just brush it off? Nah.

He’d be worrying about his pencil dick long before I worried about being a bucket.

Make a small penis joke soon and see how he responds if he tes offended i would point out he said this

Context is everything.