Well, I've learnt something new about the male orgasm!

[DangerQuakeRhinoSnake]

It doesn't have to be hard to ejaculate!

My partner of 20+ years is hitting some (hopefully minor) ED issues and turns out this is still possible even flaccid. Having read up about it, it is indeed true that the two systems are separate and a solid penis is not necessary!

For those wondering we are still able to manage some degree of penetrative sex, and this is when it happens. It's admittedy not as enjoyable (he says) and obviously not as fun for me either - although I managed to reach orgasm too due to lots of foreplay.

Well, you learn a new thing every day!

Out of interest, have you tried viagra?

It's a really recent problem, only the last week or so. So focusing on improving diet and exercise and reducing stress first.

But it's certainly something to consider if the problem persists.

ED can be caused by loads of different factors, but also can be seen as a potential early warning signal for some more serious health issues, a GP,checkup might be warranted

Thanks, it's definitely a new thing that's come on suddenly so will bear that in mind.