What’s the pOrn etiquette?

[Lovernotafighter83]

It seems my husband watches porn a few times per week. I haven’t got a massive issue, there’s been plenty of times where I’ve watched it too, but not for a long time.

I’m sure if we were having sex three times per week he wouldn’t be, so I have to take some responsibility. I feel so very shallow but I’m less attracted to my husband since he put on a lot of weight and doesn’t look after himself. I’m still attracted to him just not rip your clothes off now, like I used to be.

we still have sex and when we do it’s good, probably a few times a month. Much less than we used to (late 40s, together 25 years).

I guess I feel a bit sad that he has to get his rocks off so frequently from a screen but what’s a gal to do? And yes, I’ve tried everything in terms of talking about health, mortality, attraction, diet, gym.

We’ve both always masturbated individually. Just feels like a rut.

I would take comfort for the time being that at least the sex is good and is frequent a few times a month.
What a weekend away to spice things up?
Good luck.

Find out what his thing is on these sites maybe?
look at his history when he’s not around?

Fot me porn is just something different to look at. May wank to some when the wife is on her period or not in the mood and I am. She knows I watch porn and has no issues with it, she has said it would only become a problem if it affected our sex life.

I think thats typical of being older, being together for so long, and having all of life get in the way - kids etc...

Sex life seems reasonable, not sure what you are asking though. It is different - you can have steak a couple of times a week but sometimes you just fancy burger!

Definitely being busy plays into it a bit, I am sure, like many couples, we would both like sex more often and more time for it, but life and schedules can get in to way. That said, we usually manage twice a week at least.

We are both at home and other places at different times and we have talked about it plenty of so it is no secret that we both do watch porn when we are on our own and we do ask each other about it now and again.

My husband has been watching porn since his teens and at certain points it has been an every day thing for him, which I don't mind, but I prefer it when he watches it less than this. He often watches it just for something to do, but then gets aroused and can't move on without masturbating. The last year or so, he has been taking steps himself and trying to watch porn less for this reason.