Sex life in relationship

[Willow1806]

My sex life is literally non existent atm with my partner?? Need advice

Maybe talk to him/her?

I have he says hes tired or he's got to be up early etc etc

How long have you been together? How long has it been since you had sex?
How's the relationship otherwise? Is he under any stress?

It's all depends on lots of things how old is your partner do you have kids etc

has it always been like this?
any big changes in the relationship?
what happens when you initiate?

You don’t specify how old you are. In my late forties I remember going off the boil in the mid nineties when I was in and out of work for a few years.
That was a very stressful time, my wife was there for me and we managed to keep things going.
Don’t give up.