Escort photos

[suzycy34]

So found history on his phone , hes been looking at online photos of other women while pleasuring himself.

Just feel broken about it, do not know what to do, its not like we dont have any either. Just feel like he wants someone else rather than .me

Hello
What made you look at his phone, do you think he is cheating?
How do you know that is what he is using the photos for? Have you asked him?

What reasons - other than wanking off to them or thinking about going to one - would someone have for having pictures of escorts on their phone?

Maybe he runs a secret charity to rescue women from sex trafficking. 🤷‍♀️ Or maybe he believes that women should be paid for his pleasure…I guess we’ll never know.

I've got Escort photos on my phone, and Sierra cosworths!... I don't wank over them though, although I've thought about it.

This is so pathetic.

Op. I think a massive, massive number of men look at photos of women online. It may well be for masturbation. It doesnt mean he is cheating or even he wants to.

I appreciate there are women who do not stand for looking, but personally I dont care if my husband does this.

I dont care about him using random pics... but escorts? It he hiring girls

I think there can be a certain thrill about the fantasy of hiring an escort. Maybe it's a Richard Gere, pretty woman kind of thing. Or the idea they would do... anything... that you want, or maybe just the idea those women are somewhere tonight, having sex with someone, just because they paid them, and they would, they really would sleep with you just for money. So it's like, really possible they would sleep with you. There's a bunch of reasons to fantasise with an escort's photo. But it doesn't mean that someone isn't happy having sex with you, or that they are about to, or would hire, an escort. Of course they could be about to, or even have in the past, hired an escort. But having the picture of one doesn't immediately suggest that. There's lots of fantasy around escorts.

Don't worry that your partner may fantasise. My wife has fantasies, about a certain type of man and certain build. But she doesn't want to actually sleep with anyone except me. Fantasies are a very safe space we all should have access to. Maybe you can even play into it. Get one of those ridiculously short skirts off the Internet; the kind you would never ever wear out, and I dunno, maybe it might do something... But actually your best bet first is to try to build up an emotionally safe space between you and your partner, and work your way up to talking about it. Maybe comment that you saw one of the pictures and the woman is really hot. Be involved, never accusatory. People get very embarrassed about their fantasies. But maybe he will open up.