Hate having boobs touched during sex post-breastfeeding

[Maternityleavelady]

Does anyone else dislike having their boobs touched or sucked during sex years after breastfeeding? (My youngest is 4 years old so it’s 3 years since I finished breastfeeding).

I enjoyed having my breasts stimulated during foreplay/sex before children but having now breastfed two children I just find it either pointless or irritating when my partner tries to suck or touch my breasts - like it almost makes my Fanny clamp shut!

Basically I wish everyone would leave my boobs alone now forever, they have served their main purpose! AIBU?

Yes and my D cups shrivelled up to A/B - i have no doubt that my husband means it when he says he still loves my body but I don't get the same stimulus and that part of my sexuality is over.

@FannyCraddocksPantry please believe me that your husband lis being genuine. We’ve been there, no difference in the attraction of my wife’s breasts. I was glad to be allowed to enjoy them again after breast feeding.

No, I couldn’t stand it when b’f feeding and never took my bra off, but afterwards went back to normal.

Thanks all. Glad I am not the only one!

It took a while for me to adjust after breastfeeding, partially because of the association and partially as it took a long time for my milk to go.

But I definitely enjoyed it again from a year after breastfeeding and it’s still my favourite bit. I wonder if you’ve lost sensitivity?

@WhisperingHi it was definitely a challenge feeding both my babies and I saw a lactation specialist with both but ultimately persisted. Maybe I have destroyed all the sensitivity!