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How do you "schedule" sex if DP needs some help from Viagra

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Beamsss · 29/06/2026 12:53

He's a lovely man and the sex is good when we get there, but because he needs a pill 30 mins beforehand can never be spontaneous.

Also, even with the pills, he finds he functions better in the mornings and less well after a meal.

So the best sex is either in the mornings, but we need to have time to be awake in time for him to have a tablet and allow time for it to work first, or in the late afternoon/early evening before dinner. Both are lovely, but not very convienient, with limited opportunity to make it happen.

Are we missing something?

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Beamsss · 29/06/2026 14:54

Oh dear. Nothing?

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MrsBrollie · 29/06/2026 15:25

Has he tried Tadalfil? You take it daily and it lasts 24 hours, it may be a better option that viagra.

MrsBrollie · 29/06/2026 15:26

Has he tried Tadalfil? You take it daily and it lasts 24 hours, it may be a better option that viagra.

Beamsss · 29/06/2026 15:34

TBH it took a long time for Viagra to help him reliably, hence the care taken re time of day. He did try Tadafil once early on and found it ineffective so doesn't want to try again.

I think it could be worth another go now he's feeling more confident, as I do think that was at least part of the issue but I understsmd his reluctance.

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NotLucyGrayBaird · 29/06/2026 17:09

Cyalis works for 36 hours, longer for me.

https://www.superdrug.com/health/sexual-health/erectile-dysfunction/cialis-together-10mg-tablets-4-pack/p/833180

FlyingBeGoat · 29/06/2026 18:58

Beamsss · 29/06/2026 12:53

He's a lovely man and the sex is good when we get there, but because he needs a pill 30 mins beforehand can never be spontaneous.

Also, even with the pills, he finds he functions better in the mornings and less well after a meal.

So the best sex is either in the mornings, but we need to have time to be awake in time for him to have a tablet and allow time for it to work first, or in the late afternoon/early evening before dinner. Both are lovely, but not very convienient, with limited opportunity to make it happen.

Are we missing something?

has he had his testosterone levels checked, as they will be highest in the mornings obviously, avoiding food helps the absorption as others say Cialis might be a better option- but you need to stick with it and take it daily for a while

www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/should-you-take-a-daily-erectile-dysfunction-pill

mags1862 · 30/06/2026 07:07

These drugs only work with stimulation, so if know one has been taken we need to take matters in hand for good results .

Smithey588 · 01/07/2026 10:22

Daily cialis/tadalifil. 10mg

stays in system for 36 hours and I found it much better than Viagra.

Anotherbloke1 · 01/07/2026 22:07

He can still pleasure you in other ways until the Viagra has kicked in so your not losing any valuable time

LuXun · 04/07/2026 22:57

I think Cialis/Tadalafil is worth trying, but he might feel more confident continuing with Viagra/Sildenafil at the moment. I'd say make sure the meal is light or low in fat, and in a smaller portion (maybe have a larger lunch).

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