Direct Messages that are deleted

[SaraOnSaturday]

Is anyone else receiving DM's but then the message has been deleted?

I have had this If someone has been banned for consistent or inappropriate PMs or has deleted their account, it will delete all the PMs sent <

Yep. I've experienced that too.

Yes usually perverts that have latched onto any comment I’ve made on the sex board and want to talk “ fantasies”.

I’ve had a few deleted ones over the years; nothing recent though. That is in addition to the, admittedly rare, “hello, how are you?” From someone l don’t know.

l’ve no objection to a PM if the sender is respectful and it is explained why they are not communicating within a thread.

Had quite a few, only when I posted on here.

To be fair, l’ve had some nice ones relating to posts on other sections too.

Yes I've had it quite a bit. They've probably been messaging others who have reported and they have been banned and deleted.

The Bi Threads seem to attract more in my experience.
Like @StarlightLady says there are nice messages, sometimes going off topic a little which might have spoiled the main thread.

Yes I had this yesterday immediately after replying to two posts on this board.

(M) I do on occasion, pm members here, usually to say something in response to a forum post which may be more personal and not necessarily of interest to the thread, but maybe to the poster.
To those who have received such pm from me, I hope you’ve found them respectful …. even if not actually very helpful!

The odd thing is that the usernames are always similar and quite comical!

Yes and always one word as they have no imagination! It’s very predictable

I had one today, it vanished as I tried to reply. Ho Hum!

We should name and shame!

yes , have had several deleted over the last few days

I’ve had a few recently too - I do reply sometimes, but obviously not if they’re deleted 🤣