Light hearted question for women

[AtBeaverGoat]

So to preface this I’m male in my 50’s ( not sure my age matters )
I came out of a long term sexless relationship a few years ago and am seeing someone new and it’s all good- we don’t live together and I don’t really want to either
on the nights we sleep over at each other’s I’ve noticed the my partner likes to hold my cock and balls as we sleep - almost like a comforter - I never experienced this before and so was wondering how common ( or not) it may be ?

Does it matter if it's common or not? If you and her are both happy, then enjoy!

Odd as fuck, HTH.

I’ve never done this. If you’re happy…crack on. If you don’t like it…tell her.

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Oh no - I love it - feels really intimate- never experienced it before and I love it 🥰

What is that smell Rodney?

It’s weird to me sorry 😂 but then that’s sex for you and we’re all different.

I don’t like any touching of anyone in my sleep, I need my space. I mean, aren’t you worried what might happen if she has a nightmare 😂. Maybe she might have a crazy dream about wrestling with a snake.

Not for me - but if you like it, carry on and enjoy.

As long as there isn't a block of wood and a sledgehammer by the bed, I wouldn't worry.

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100% weird.

Yeah, it’s a bit weird 🫤.

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Odd to me as a male and I wouldn’t be comfortable with that.

I don't think I've ever done it, but I do like a lot of physical contact when I'm going to sleep. My XH couldn't sleep with any touch at all and I hated how his need/preference trumped mine to be snuggled.

If you two are both happy, I think it's lovely! I think the comments of weird are harsh and rude. (And in general I really don't like the increased tendency here to yuck other people's yum.)

I think this is it , my ex also didn’t like touch but my new partner loves skin to skin contact in bed and so so I so.it works great for us 👍

It's a chat forum, people share opinions and as long as polite/within tgs it is fine.
It is beyond weird to go to sleep holding someone's cock and balls. Uncomfortable at best, painful and a bit controlling at worst.

Does this practice recommence when you return from a 4am pee ? 💧

Perhaps she accompanies him to the loo and holds his cock while he wees?

I've never had a partner who was into this but my American mate has been married for decades to a girl from East Asia who does it all the time and can't get to sleep otherwise. Definitely intimate, but I couldn't get to sleep that way.

Hmm interesting. If you both enjoy it, then good. But curious to know- do neither of you ever turn sides in your sleep, get up to drink water, or use the washroom? I mean sounds a bit impractical.

Controlling 😂 what utters bollocks ( pun intended), she is not holding on with an iron grip

I tend to sleep on my back and side, she will cuddle up next to me again when / if we need the loo

I do this to my husband, it feels nice to me and yes a sort of comfort. He found it different at the beginning but doesn’t mind now. I know it isn’t ‘normal’ but if you don’t mind that she does it then I don’t see the issue.

Yeah sorry you're right, wrong word! Needy, clingy maybe? Anyway if it floats your boat and you're happy great. You did ask if it was normal and I'd suggest very uncommon. I couldn't imagine trying to sleep hanging on to my dh's cock and balls .

Was with a guy for a few years who’s do the opposite
He liked to go to sleep both arms around me cupping my vagina.
Wed part during the night obviously
it was nice

I sometimes drift off to sleep cradling the crown jewels. He likes it and so do I. I let go at some point though and once or twice he has removed my hand when I start dreaming and twitching, just to be on the safe side😁