First time with a women - advice

[dramaqueeen]

Hi , I’m looking for advice as I’m so so nervous!!

im mid twenties and have a toddler, I’ve only ever been with men. I split from my toddlers father 8 months ago. I knew I always had feelings for women but always kind of put it to the back of my head and ignored it. I always felt confused as i knew I could romantically like a women but wasn’t sure if I could sexually feel for a women.

anyways, I’ve been texting this gorgeous masc presenting girl and im obsessed!! She’s asked me out for a drink this weekend and said if all goes well we can take it back to her house. I’m not set out on sleeping together first time meeting but with drink involved and one thing leads to another it more than likely will happen.

anyone have tips? I am so nervous!!!! I don’t know where to start when it comes to sex with another women

I don't think it matters what we say. I guess she will take charge. Just know your boundaries before you meet.

Exciting! I remember how nervous I was when in a similar position (pardon the pun). I ended up doing lots of snogging, and 2/3rd base (no sex) and loved it. Just went with it.

Have in your mind what you are ok with. Treat the date as you would with any other - be safe and have fun. Please don't drink too much, you like each other so this isn't a once in a lifetime chance you'll miss out on if you don't go all the way that first time and you want to remember the experience lol. You've got time to get comfortable.

Trim your nails would be a practical tip.

Tongue strengthening exercises. You may laugh, but if you haven't done a lot of it before you'll know the next day. Hopefully it won't be the only area that's sore.
Just relax OP. According to my bi DGF's it's all very natural.