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Age gap fantasies

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Shamelessthoughts · 11/02/2026 11:12

Ever since I was in my early 20’s I always had a thing for older men, not really old but a 10-20 year age gap, it’s always been a huge fantasy of myn.
Is this a common fantasy that men and women have?

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MySXforumnn · 11/02/2026 11:35

I've always had a thing since I was younger for older women. I can pinpoint the start of it to a short fling I had when I was 18 with a woman who was 30.

NinaOakley · 11/02/2026 13:00

I had a thing for older, experienced men when I was younger, but now I’m middle aged anything more than five years either side feels icky.

GreenCrow · 11/02/2026 13:43

When I was younger I had a huge thing for older women, I think perhaps because I didn't connect that well with women my age by comparison at that point in my life.

That's worn off over the years, there are still certain physical or situational things that I often fantasise over but as far as age goes that range has narrowed.

CaffeinatedSeagull · 11/02/2026 15:04

Yes. I think the reality is that most people (no matter what sex) have given this fantasy thought. A good % have also probably gone through with it too.

OfcourseitsaNC · 11/02/2026 20:34

Shamelessthoughts · 11/02/2026 11:12

Ever since I was in my early 20’s I always had a thing for older men, not really old but a 10-20 year age gap, it’s always been a huge fantasy of myn.
Is this a common fantasy that men and women have?

I don't, and never have either.

I'm attracted to men. Their age isn't a barrier to me.

I've slept with men up to 15 years younger. Only 5 years older. But not through design. If I found a man 20 years older than me attractive, I'd be fine with it.

FieryA · 11/02/2026 20:48

I always have a fantasy for older men and I have acted on it too, and have had fantastic experiences.

ThatAquaRobin · 12/02/2026 13:30

It will die once you get to 49 like me.
Older men - 🤢

SophieMumsy · 13/02/2026 07:20

I have always preferred older men and my first was 20 years older than me

MS302 · 13/02/2026 09:28

I was about 50 I sex with a 70 woman and another about the same When I was about 60 I had a woman who was 82 They all lighted sex a lot

PortionsForWolves · 13/02/2026 09:51

Yes, male and have always fantasised about older women. In my teens it was mums and neighbours, now in my 40s I still have fantasies about older women

Jasonp86 · 13/02/2026 09:59

Any fantasy is fine, older, younger, size differences, race differences, everyone’s beautiful and everyone will be a surprise and success in their own way. Sex is a beautiful thing and should be enjoyed and not taken for granted

hyacinthwannabe · 14/02/2026 16:05

My first husband and all previous partners were my age and boring. I met my now husband 15 yrs ago. He’s almost 10 yrs older and he’s amazing! Absolutely the answer to all my older man fantasies.

Joe7t8 · 16/02/2026 10:42

Another man that’s always had a thing for older women ever since I was a teenager.

In fact, when I was about 18-19 I had a couple of dirty mags exclusively featuring women in their 40s and 50s ☺️

noego · 16/02/2026 13:40

The older woman younger woman lesbian dynamic has always been a favourite fantasy of mine.

GingerPubes · 19/02/2026 04:27

My partner is 63 and I'm 55. All my partners, except the first have been older than me. Long may it reign. I remember at University, I went to bed with a woman of 52. I met her in a pub in Stoke. She was adorable.

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