Best sex moves?

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So I’m with a new sexual partner who is very experienced in the bedroom. I am less so….. we have had sex and once and it was really good but I felt he was the one directing me and I have little imagination. I want to be a bit more prepared next time.
Any ideas of things I can do (not sex positions).
Things I did which he really enjoyed were oral and hand job, running my nails up and down his body including inside his thighs, kissing his neck and chest, teasing such as leaning over him but not allowing entry
and holding his hands down and taking control. He at one point told me to do to him what I wanted but I struggled to know what to do.

Honestly from a male prospective the greatest turn on is sexual confidence and enthusiasm. If you’re worrying what he thinks or what you are doing you won’t be in the moment.

By far the best sex I’ve ever had is with women who are sexually free, unreserved and into it. If you’re new man is anything like me he’s asking you to treat him like a giant fuck stick and exact as much pleasure from him as possible.

@ThingywhatsitsThankyou. I feel that I do lack confidence but I think i did have enough confidence and I was definitely enthusiastic. I was definitely in the moment, it’s more thinking afterwards that I feel I want to be a bit more prepared. He has text me since telling me how much he loved it when I was in a certain position, he gave oral and I came and he did comment afterwards that it felt naughty so I definitely think he gets a lot out of seeing my enjoyment. I suppose the telling me to do what I wanted to him felt like I was missing something that I hadn’t thought of.

If he’s texted since saying he enjoyed it then I’d believe him. Sounds like you both had a great time.

There are obviously selfish guys out there but I do think women underestimate how much we love seeing you enjoying yourself. I find it takes the pressure off me and I then enjoy it more too.

I’m female and agree with this. Communication, plenty of eye contact, don’t be second guessing what they are thinking. Visually show you’re enjoying what they are doing, and that you are enjoying and are excited by their body. Act confident, confident in knowing your own body, how to use it to pleasure him and yourself.
Individual moves vary from person on what they like, but I have never had a complaint from a man when I show confidence in what I’m doing, showing when they are getting it right and that I am very into having sex with them. Eye contact, smile, don’t be silent, let them hear when things are going well.

I agree, eye contact and be enthusiastic.

Sometimes I grab my husband's cock and use it to fuck myself with. He likes that.

Assuming you're not paraphrasing too much, I'd say the key phrase is "do to him". It's about him receiving. A lot of people will spin that as he wants to be passive or lazy. I would say he wants to be the object of your pleasure - an act of giving. Of trust. Possibly a little submission as well ... and, if that's the case, that's fine. We don't use phrases like that if we're not comfortable (especially men), so he's giving you license to be curious. And if his trust isn't enough to make you confident ... well ... you should probably unpack your past with a therapist. 🤣

I presume its still attached to him?

Of course 😂

@mnmndddddno that’s exactly what he said. He definitley wasn’t being lazy and I think yes it was about submission. Yer they way he trusted me and how much he enjoyed what I did do and how much he enjoyed pleasuring me has definitley helps my confidence. As he is so confident and open I feel able to let myself go a bit more as I don’t feel he is going to judge me.

Happy for you.
Enjoy.

I once sat on a guys d* while I played with myself and came all over him. You could try that 👌 enjoy!

Grind your pubes into his pubes, try humping in a scissors position to get your clitoris receiving the maximum pleasure for you, Sex on the floor will give him great pleasure when he grinds against your pubic bone whilst kissing you or chewing on alternative breast nipples hopefully he will be hugging you or have your arms pinned above your head if you enjoy being in a captive position, something you need to talk about before he does this, & have a word or signal to stop him if uncomfortable with what’s happening.
Enjoy your workout.💐

That’s a clue. If he said do to him what you want, he may have submissive tendencies. Try pushing him down on the bed, and then sit lightly on his face and demand ina firm voice that he tongues you until you come. Being firm with him and using him for your pleasure might really blow his mind

He loves it when I sit on his face.

Alright great, you’re up and running. You found a coal seam. See how far that goes. Try grabbing his dick when you’re on his face and slapping it. Be rough with him (in the sex sense, where rough is really not that rough). See if that turns him on more. Maybe buy some nipple clamps and put them on him. Try some tu ing, and if he likes it, keep going in that direction

@ruddigerHe doesn’t like rough. I do and have got a bit carried away a couple of times and he’s slowed me down.

Just keep trying a whole lot of different things. And when he likes something, explore down that path more. The fact you're even willing to try and discover what he likes, that's probably the best sex move :)

I agree with what others have said about eye contact (and for me a bit of noise seems to work well)
you mentioned he enjoyed oral and hand jobs, my ex (and other guys) have loved when I gave oral and slipped him between my breasts and pleasured him that way for a while - (and you can go from there to your mouth and back again which is usually a nice tease hehe) I’m a c cup so not especially blessed in the boob department but might be worth giving a go! Xx

Thankyou. Yes I give lots of eye contact and make noise lol. I have put his penis between my breasts gently but not actually given a tit wank. He’s quite small so I’m worried it won’t work and I don’t want to offend him! I do have big boobs though (36g) so it may work but I am a bit worried about trying!

Penis between breasts is known as a "tit wank" or a "Bombay Roll' - save everyone some typing.

Geez there’s some very lucky hubbies out there!

Tit wanks are great to give. Don’t think it matters if he is small. Lube or oil for a tit massage, then use your arms to scoop your tits together. Place your hand flat against his pelvis, use your forefinger and thumb to wrap around the base of his penis whilst he thrusts between your tits. Size doesn’t matter with the extra friction.

A lick of his tinna will drive him crazy

Tinna?

I was also wondering 😂