Sex toys!

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Myself and my DH has a very healthy sex life. Averaging 1-4 times a week, depending on life 😂 we sometimes would use sex toys-currently own wand, bullet, rabbit and clit sucker. Have previously had a cock ring but he's not a fan. Any suggestions what I could buy for him?

The toys are less important than what you each want to do. Do you have a sense of what he wants from sex, or what you want to try. The toys follow that. If you're short of ideas, Lovehoney is quite the seam of ideas but they can fall flat unless you know what you're aiming for.

Just defo no anal toys 😂😂 is a flesh light mainly for solo?

There's no reason why you couldn't use it on him (I've never seen one)...might be a nice introduction to teasing/edging?

I have never seen one in real life or heard of it until I was looking on love honey.

Blindfold
Silk restraints
Handcuffs
Nipple clamps

Never got round to buying any, but the Tenga sleeves are supposed to be very good.

My DH isn’t a big fan of things like flesh lights because they’re not designed to fit the whole length in them. Only the end or maybe half of the length gets covered by it. A lot of internet searching found one that is long enough to cover the whole average length and he likes that one.

From what I’ve observed they’re definitely something that the man would need to use on himself. There’s air holes to control the suction of the sleeve and it’s like playing some sort of complicated wind instrument. Hilarious noises from it too with air suction and movement.

Strap on!

Gives you a great sense of empowerment lol

I have just created myself to some new toys, nipple clamps etc, the only thing DH was interested in was the remote control vibrating egg.

Some lunatic was selling a used one on here last week..... See if they've still got it!

I'm pretty sure Fleshlights are about 10" long, so I'm going to struggle not to feel rather inadequate after reading this statent. 😭😭😭

Very poor response Miss Whiskey. You deserve better.

@JoyousMaker, thank you. I’m beginning to feel that way too!.

Might pass on that offer😂😂😂

Have you bought anything yet? X

I haven't yet. But I think I will buy a grind ring to test out!

Ooh interesting, off to google as haven’t heard of these! Would DH enjoy you wearing a butt plug or nipple clamps or tassels?

My husband would love me to wear a butt plug. But I really don't think I could 😂 wlbeing very vanilla but what would nipple clamps do for either of us?

I’ve just bought my first plugs, they are quite small and have a jewelled base. I bought the nipple clamps as I like the tight sensation pinching my nipples. You can get all different types from weighted to fun novelty ones. It can be visually stimulating as well.

Report back when you use the butt plug, see if it's worth it🙈 I think it's the fear lol

I may have to PM you the update 😆

Lovehoney Head Master Triple Header Flexible Stroker Set - I have just order This. Looks like good reviews!

Lol, DH is average. Turns out I got confused between fleshlights and male masturbators. It’s male masturbators that are usually only 3 to 4 inches deep or only designed for the head of the penis. They’re the ones that have vibrations and sometimes a warming function. Finding a 6 inch deep one was tricky but I eventually found one online and DH likes it.

I'm not sure whether I'm more relieved for your DH or myself.