What is your sexual USP?

[Elritther]

Firstly this is a badly worded title. I have been asked this question by a straight male friend and thought it could be worth opening up on this forum. What he wants to know is what thing do you find sexy in a partner (including but not limited to straight cis men which he happens to be) which you think is unusual. To illustrate with my own response first. I find it a massive turn on when a man asks for feedback regularly during intimacy - how is that feeling for you, should I do this less or more - and I fucking love it when a partner sincerely compliments me on my body if I have been working out and feel I deserve the compliment, If he is just buttering me up it doesn't work though. Would be interested to hear what you lot think

I'm physically unimpressive, but have been complimented on my imagination and ability to make someone laugh during sex.

Kissing, apparently.

Surely no one has a USP. It has to be a variety of USP's doesn't it?

This is an easy one for me!

I have the ability to decide how hard I want to be, for how long I want to be ( even after I orgasm ) and precisely when I want to be.

What is USP?

Unique Selling Point

(Something special about you that makes you very desirable!)

Sometimes OH looks at me and all he says is ‘wow’. I still love that.

I guess because of my past (working girl) I’m open. I’ll listen and try to please x

Merry Christmas Sex People!🎄 x

How did you learn to do this?

Bionic penis.

gives me superpowers!

Average size and ability to continue plus kissing and going south

I was called "the cunny king".

An ex bought me a keyring with 'Sex God" on it after I was the first person to make her orgasm.

I’m excellent with words, fantastic at oral and pretty well endowed. Makes me a real catch if you like men in their late 40s!

That'll be Humility as your USP then I guess?! 😂

I guess mine would be that I’ve tried lots of different kink and BDSM stuff so I’m pretty unshockable. I’m a real nerd about sexual psychology too, so love figuring out what makes people tick.

What I find super attractive in others is an ability to clearly communicate wants and desires in a respectful way.

I'd love a nice cup of tea please.

Any good?

That depends entirely on what you want to do with the nice cup of tea… 🤣

Modest too 😆

I wish the girl i had sex with, told me what to do. She was hot but i didnt know what i do. I took long to come. Its very silppy with a condom. I was thinking of doing it more, but its a bad idea for ethics. Tell men what to do and give feedback i say.

Mostly I wear stockings rather than tights and at home short skirts.

Well yes, I can see that might work.

Most men have simple tastes at the start of a friendship or relationship. Luckily most of those develop more meaningful and less blatant attitudes.
A simple start is usually a good start.

@Eileen101 and @everywhichway Yes, very modest and humble. They’re practically my middle names 🤣

Love to kiss for ages and use my fingers imaginatively, and cuddle afterwards.