I hate sex with my husband

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Long story short we’ve been together 15 years and I want sex but not with him, he’s very boring even after I have spoken about it with him but he never seems to change it up, I’m at my wits end if I’m honest I feel like I can’t enjoy it because he’s boring

Guess if you dislike it that much and he doesn’t want to do anything different, then maybe you need to find someone else

Have you tried taking the lead and doing something different? Maybe start trying something a little different in foreplay. Do you have something that you really want to do? Maybe he’s in a rut and can’t be bothered. However once he “feels” something a bit different it might inspire him. Try setting the scene and going from there.

How do you feel about him as a person? About the relationship? I’m wondering if he’s lazy in bed, is that a reflection of his general attitude to you?

@Person93369i have tried everything he really just isn’t interested in anything i try/ do. When I try saying to him about he is says well
atleast we still have sex

@Gymbunny2025we had a really great sex life but it’s been the past three years he’s just gone terrible nothing seems to work with him and it isn’t fair that he’s gets to
finish and I don’t even though I’ve done all
the work.

Take a look at Jenny Keane's website & maybe consider buying a toy that you can both use. She will often do free videos that show how the toy can be used in different ways.

If he’s a bit lazy have you tried instigating a ladies first rule? Nothing that would make him come until you’ve had an orgasm?