How would go about getting sex .

[Itsnotallaboutyoulikeyouthink]

Mid 40s woman. Widowed for 7 years. Relationships are out of the question for various reasons, but sex very much desired. Bi sexual, adventurous. If you were me how would you go about getting sex.

I’ve used several dating purposes over the years to fulfil my needs so to speak
Currently I find uk free dating the most suitable for that purpose.

Goid luck x

You could try just sitting at the bar of a hotel used by business travellers.
Or failing that, try Feeld.

I'm similar enough to you. At the moment I'm liking WAX (We are X), have also used FabSwingers, Feeld and Tinder. Be honest and straightforward about what you're looking for.

I have casual sex with a colleague (not direct colleague) but I wouldn’t recommend it, especially as I find him hugely attractive, he doesn’t have much free time as he’s a single parent with 100% custody and every-time I see him in the office (twice a week on average) I just want to drag him off to the toilets (which I don’t obviously!). I’d try online, if you’re happy looking for something casual shouldn’t be too difficult to find.

As a single woman you are spoiled for choice! It might help to be more specific about what you are looking for.

Are you looking for ongoing fwb type encounters or v casual hook ups? Are sex parties too casual for you? One on one or couples+ ? Are you able to go to a major city or are you looking for something closer to home? Do you wish to be discrete or would being spotted on an app be an issue?

I know people who've had success with SkirtClub for casual hook ups and fwb with bi women and KillingKittens parties for female/ couples encounters. Mint London also hold women only 'play' events. All very London centric, with a few SC events in other cities.

If you are ok with non-exclusivity/ ENM, a few friends have met people on Feel'd too. If by 'adventurous' you mean serious kink or swinging then Fab is an option as are local swinging/ sex clubs.

As a woman you can get a guy to your house quicker than you could a pizza. Just use a dating app. Badoo seems ok

Similar situation...a sexual being, widowed in my 30s.
I believe I am demisexual (never knew there was a term for this until recently) so I have to be in a serious long-term relationship before I'd be physically attracted to someone.
Which is a shame, because I really miss sex.
I haven't found an answer yet,
but I do have an awful lot of rechargeable batteries in my night stand.
I don't have any hookup advice for you unfortunately but
I wish you luck,
And I'm sorry for your loss.

@Itsnotallaboutyoulikeyouthink How keen are you to have dates with other Bi women?
There have been recent Threads about Bi-curious women seeking friends. Would you accept PM from them.

Are you a long way from London or a big city?

Have a night out with the girls (or go to a bar by yourself if need be) and go for a man thats not too drunk. They generally can't get it up if they have had too much... nobody wants that.

You need to be clearer about what you want.

Is it random hook ups? Or a FWB and if so what sort (someone you are genuinely friends with or a stranger you don’t see away form sex)? All are probably a bit different to go about setting up.

If you just wanted sex with men, any of the dating apps would give you plenty of offers if you were clear that’s what you wanted. I imagine you’ve had offers on here!

Not sure what the modern version is but many years ago we used Adult friend finder. It was essentially an online 'dating' site but for those looking for NSA hook ups rather than love. There must something similar around now.