It's really sad. There's a reason why porn (along with gambling and narcotics, legal and illegal) used to be hard to access. It was out of consideration for people who would be sent crazy by those things. Instead, now, we are told that self-expression, self-identity and self-fulfillment are all that matter and that rules are oppressive. The people who tell us this have become obscenely rich. Those same people like to make big tech that gets in the way of every natural human interaction. We've all been utterly played.
Yes I know, a big rant but I think the people who created the environment for this genuinely think they're good people, bringing true freedom. Actually they're arseholes as big as Trump and haven't the self-awareness to realise it.