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How to seduce my boyfriend

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aycnme · 05/11/2025 13:53

I have low confidence due to body image issues and low sex drive from my boyfriend causing him to reject me. How can I seduce him? He says he wants to have sex more but he's often tired and stressed. I just want to feel close and wanted

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FieryA · 06/11/2025 10:31

I think you have bigger problems than worrying about how to seduce him. There are honest conversations to be had- why do you have a low sex drive? In what way is he rejecting you because that can be quite humiliating? And if he is also stressed and can't have sex because of it, that's another issue. You both need to speak to a GP and counsellor, to work out these problems. There are so many things that need addressing here, but your thoughts seem quite naive and immature, as if by seducing him everything will suddenly be alright.

mnmnddddd · 06/11/2025 18:20

Whilst I agree with rhe PP that you may be coming at this from the wrong direction, I'm not sure you need a medical or counselling intervention based in what you've said.
How is the rest of your relationship? Do you spend much quality time together? (You haven't said whether you live together or apart, how long you've been a couple, whether this is a new issue or whether something has changed.) Do you fancy each other?
Having sex, in and of itself, won't necessarily make you feel wanted. (Or it might - everyone is different.) If you do want to try seduction, MN can't tell you how to do that, as it will depend largely on what works for your boyfriend, and what subset of that you feel comfortable with.
Maybe spend some time working on the core of your relationship and understanding eachother. Being known nd accepted by someone is very seductive.

Gymbunny2025 · 06/11/2025 19:51

You can only seduce someone that wants to be seduced imho

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