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OpalFruitsMakeYourMouthWater · 07/10/2025 07:51

I still think it’s gross! Not something I’d say yes to at all!

Catullus5 · 07/10/2025 08:22

It's a pity that perceptions of this are tainted by porn. Lots of porn is horrible but it doesn't follow that an act depicted in it is always horrible. It's all about context.

Jasonp86 · 07/10/2025 09:19

Smithey588 · 07/10/2025 07:39

I think it’s one of those things that is hot because it is not seen as part of ‘normal sex’ for most, maybe a bit like anal so for most (men) it’s seen as a special treat but if it routinely became part of sex sessions then I’m sure the novelty would wear off for most?

I agree, if it was an everyday Occurrence it would probably lead to just wanting to finish inside her however else people ‘normally’ finish with their partners, it’s just a novelty and a ‘treat’ as you said

FreshCarnations · 07/10/2025 20:03

Yes, I enjoy giving facials to my wife and in my mind I want her to find it a compliment that I find her face so attractive I ejaculate. Simple as. Nothing to do with control and submission with me. Same way I enjoy ejaculating on her petite pedicured feet, it's just feminine qualities that arouse me. It's not something we do the majority of the time but we enjoy it when we're both in the mood.

AnonymouseDad · 07/10/2025 22:11

Nope. Not for me at all. We had a conversation today about mutual masterbation and neither of us fancy that at all. But the thought of doing that and finishing on her face is not a turn on.
There are times when i'm stood up and she is sitting and she is in control of where I finish. Times like those she has liked it on her chest or slightly above but I would never say I want to finish on your, well anywhere. That seems way to planned.

ParallelOrganum · 08/10/2025 08:53

I know you say you are generalising, but if you think all men like to cum on a woman’s face then perhaps this says more about the kind of men you are attracted to? Personally I’ve never had a desire to finish this way as I see it as a dominant act and not part of a mutually respectful relationship, but perhaps that says more about the type of women I’m attracted to too?

Gymbunny2025 · 08/10/2025 09:37

ParallelOrganum · 08/10/2025 08:53

I know you say you are generalising, but if you think all men like to cum on a woman’s face then perhaps this says more about the kind of men you are attracted to? Personally I’ve never had a desire to finish this way as I see it as a dominant act and not part of a mutually respectful relationship, but perhaps that says more about the type of women I’m attracted to too?

I think it can be a dominant thing, or just an expression of attraction and love. Both work for me at different times. But yes absolutely agree not all men and not all women enjoy it.

TBF to OP I don’t think I’d enjoy it if he made weird faces while he did it 😂 for me a lot of the appeal is looking in each others eyes and seeing our mutual desire (and then the result of that).

Missj25 · 08/10/2025 10:01

Aishabibi · 05/10/2025 13:49

… why do you all (generalising) want to finish over your partners face? I know it’s a porn thing, but why? My FwB is desperate to do so, I’ve not let him yet because I’m not a huge fan, especially in the eye where it stings like hell.

surely it’s better to be taken over the line rather than manually finishing yourself? Someone please explain it to me….

I think it’s hot , when you’re performing oral sex on your partner & he finishes in your mouth & all over your face .. It’s a huge turn on for me ..
Defo not just a porn thing , as in that’s not why men want to do it , it’s cause it feels sexy & turns both people on

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 08/10/2025 15:55

Not all of us, I don’t and have never been interested in it, I much prefer a natural finish.

Missj25 · 08/10/2025 19:11

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 08/10/2025 15:55

Not all of us, I don’t and have never been interested in it, I much prefer a natural finish.

Everyone has their own preferences..
There’s stuff I don’t like that I know others enjoy
Each to their own as they say 🤷🏻‍♀️

Missj25 · 08/10/2025 19:12

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 08/10/2025 15:55

Not all of us, I don’t and have never been interested in it, I much prefer a natural finish.

Everyone has their own preferences..
There’s stuff I don’t like that I know others enjoy
Each to their own as they say 🤷🏻‍♀️

taxguru · 08/10/2025 19:30

Maccar305 · 05/10/2025 20:03

For me, if my partner is encouraging me during a tit wank, and she teases me to cum "big" as she calls it, we both know she wants me to cover her.....and that'll probably include her face. Do folk here really think no one did this before "modern video porn?" Seriously? ...... the Greeks & Romans rather enjoyed the practice as I remember from my University "classics" studies......

I agree. It was something I did with my first boyfriend 40 years ago. Long before internet porn! It's not just an internet porn thing at all. It was just something that came naturally during experimentation etc. Our only "porn" was the "Just Seventeen Relationships Advice Book" and a copy of the Karma Sutra we borrowed from the library!

NCForThatForumM · 09/10/2025 09:36

It's not a porn thing. I wanted it long before I'd ever seen porn.

As for why? I'm not sure. It feels intimate, it feels deliciously wrong, it feels sexily disrespectful to someone I (hopefully) love, it's very trusting and accepting of her to allow it. There's an element of her being submissive.

So big thumbs up from me even if I can't fully express why. ❤️🍆

onetrickponee · 09/10/2025 11:30

i ask where to cum - tits , arse and face are favourites in my experience

Daedalus59 · 18/10/2025 10:13

Aishabibi · 05/10/2025 13:49

… why do you all (generalising) want to finish over your partners face? I know it’s a porn thing, but why? My FwB is desperate to do so, I’ve not let him yet because I’m not a huge fan, especially in the eye where it stings like hell.

surely it’s better to be taken over the line rather than manually finishing yourself? Someone please explain it to me….

Not something I've ever done or ever wanted to do. I personally find it very much a complete turn off to be honest.

GreenCrow · 18/10/2025 13:19

I love to cum to a womans face, I find it intimate and hot, and the thought of being watched as I do drives me absolutely crazy, but I can't say I've ever finished over a woman's face.

For me it's like anything else, if DW was as enthusiastic for it as some here I'd go to town, but I'd be equally happy covering myself or keeping it contained in a condom, whatever generated that excitement (none of the above currently but what can you do).

YehaaYessir · 20/10/2025 18:53

My DH likes to cum inside me and has never shown any interest in finishing anywhere else.

I did have an ex though who used to have incredible stamina and I would often have to finish him off when I was all done.

He could fire the stuff some distance and produced quite a lot too so I'd often end up covered in the stuff lol, not specifically my face but any of me that happened to get in the way!

I'm not sure it did much for him other than he obviously enjoyed cuming - but I have to admit I found it as sexy as hell! I used to love it.

Missj25 · 20/10/2025 22:42

ParallelOrganum · 08/10/2025 08:53

I know you say you are generalising, but if you think all men like to cum on a woman’s face then perhaps this says more about the kind of men you are attracted to? Personally I’ve never had a desire to finish this way as I see it as a dominant act and not part of a mutually respectful relationship, but perhaps that says more about the type of women I’m attracted to too?

Not true , not part of a mutually respectful relationship..
Lots of couples that have complete respect for one another like to play Dom/Sub ..
It’s just Sexy Fun ..

Pigeonpoodle · 21/10/2025 07:27

OpalFruitsMakeYourMouthWater · 05/10/2025 15:08

I think it’s disgusting. It’s a porn thing and degrading to women - well, I think so. There is no way in hell I’d let a man do it to me. That’s just my opinion.

I had a friend who insisted one of her biggest turn ons was a guy finishing in her face! We’re all different when it comes to what we love with sex.

As for it being degrading… anything other than very vanilla “romantic” sex could easily be seen as degrading if we wanted to view it that way. Oral for a start… Doggy too… I could go on. It’s only degrading if the aim is to humiliate and hurt.

Pigeonpoodle · 21/10/2025 07:36

ParallelOrganum · 08/10/2025 08:53

I know you say you are generalising, but if you think all men like to cum on a woman’s face then perhaps this says more about the kind of men you are attracted to? Personally I’ve never had a desire to finish this way as I see it as a dominant act and not part of a mutually respectful relationship, but perhaps that says more about the type of women I’m attracted to too?

Lots of women want to be dominated in the bedroom, in the context of a loving relationship that is. It’s not abusive.

Gerrysmum · 25/10/2025 08:26

Pigeonpoodle · 21/10/2025 07:36

Lots of women want to be dominated in the bedroom, in the context of a loving relationship that is. It’s not abusive.

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This! Being mutually repectful means so many different things to different people. I love my husband being dominant in the bedroom, its incredibly hot and such a turn on for me and him. We both enjoy it and have a lot of fun, this is a form of mutual respect for us. We are a team and he isnt controlling in any other part of our life, just in the bedroom which is where I want him to be in charge 🫢😆😂

Itsnotallaboutyoulikeyouthink · 28/10/2025 23:14

Likewise lots of men like their faces to be squirted on. If I’m doing this it’s all about the loosing control that’s hot.

ParallelOrganum · 03/11/2025 19:46

Pigeonpoodle · 21/10/2025 07:36

Lots of women want to be dominated in the bedroom, in the context of a loving relationship that is. It’s not abusive.

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Yes, I can see that, although I never said I thought it abusive - you’re putting words in my mouth there. I think the key word that you and others may have missed in my reply was “personally”, I fully admit that there are a whole range and variety of dynamics in different loving relationships; it’s just this particular dynamic hasn’t been part of mine.

Missj25 · 03/11/2025 23:09

ParallelOrganum · 03/11/2025 19:46

Yes, I can see that, although I never said I thought it abusive - you’re putting words in my mouth there. I think the key word that you and others may have missed in my reply was “personally”, I fully admit that there are a whole range and variety of dynamics in different loving relationships; it’s just this particular dynamic hasn’t been part of mine.

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Correction , you stated you think”
it’s not part of a mutually respectful relationship “
You think those who engage in dom/ sub have no respect for one another 🤷🏻‍♀️..
That’s exactly what you said ..
You didn’t use word abusive no .
“ I fully admit there are a whole variety & range of dynamics in different loving relationships “ completely contradicts your above statement..

Mcc8700 · 04/11/2025 09:06

Have done many years ago but I was under strict instructions not near my wife’s hair or eyes 😂 basically just near her mouth. My wife went through a phase where she would love me to cum near her mouth and over her boobs but fast forward a few years and she only wants me to cum inside her now.
Can’t explain why but we both found it quite a turn on and quite sexy.